Dozens of honest conversations with friends, coworkers, and family members have taught me that I’m not the only person who feels unsettled or imperfect. But authentic voices are shutting up at the risk of looking like a failure. Or a loser. Or anything less than #gramworthy. That’s why I’m here. To share the lessons I’m learning in a totally authentic, honest way. And yes, my journey towards grace is anything but graceful.